TRAPPED
Children are supposed to be a blessing and bring joy and headache to the parents and all. That evey parent expects. However they are not supposed to be the reason one stays in a miserable relationship! A lot of people dont actually get that staying in a relationship that is not working is not only bad for them but also detrimental to the developing psyche of that child they think they are protecting! Imagine what a child learns from seeing one of their parent being abused by the other! If you love each other its all wonderful and blissful and thats good but when the love is gone just let it go! And the tendency of threatening to keep the child from one by the other partner is really getting old! Those of you who are threatened need to grow some balls and tell your parenting partner that no sane court would keep a willing parent away from their child! I really hate to see people suffering because of the burden they place on themselves with regards to their children when they really dont have to be suffering.

I know i am not exactly qualified to have these thoughts but you being horrible in life will definitely rub on your child, if thats yur im i feel sorry for the child if not its time for action!