TRAPPED
Children are supposed to be a blessing and bring joy and headache to the parents and all. That evey parent expects. However they are not supposed to be the reason one stays in a miserable relationship! A lot of people dont actually get that staying in a relationship that is not working is not only bad for them but also detrimental to the developing psyche of that child they think they are protecting! Imagine what a child learns from seeing one of their parent being abused by the other! If you love each other its all wonderful and blissful and thats good but when the love is gone just let it go! And the tendency of threatening to keep the child from one by the other partner is really getting old! Those of you who are threatened need to grow some balls and tell your parenting partner that no sane court would keep a willing parent away from their child! I really hate to see people suffering because of the burden they place on themselves with regards to their children when they really dont have to be suffering.

I know i am not exactly qualified to have these thoughts but you being horrible in life will definitely rub on your child, if thats yur im i feel sorry for the child if not its time for action!

WHAT IT SAYS ABOUT YOU?
I heard that my friends have a tendency of saying bad things about one another friend we have. Mostly its just them saying how she is a bitch and how she is like a food outlet that you might pass by while journeying somewhere.
This then made me question my friend's characters. How could they, being the self respecting people they claim to be and in most cases are then befriend such a person. And then also how could they not were they good friends sit her down and show her how her behaviour was tarnishing her image
instead of revealing in  her misery and making endless fun of her
In retrospect i know i have done this in my  youth but now the friends i keep, we tell each other everything even if we have to point out the bad traits that each of us have. Because thats after all the true definition of friendship.
What my other friends are doing however reflects badly on them as well because saying bad things about another person even if they are true especially in their absence says that you are an imposter for lack of a better word.
You can pretend to be a friend while attacking that friend behind their back and it just means you cant be trusted and that you are mean.
So the next time you want to point out something bad about a friend make sure they are around so that at least they can go and correct themselves, that way you have done good to the world

just realised something the harder you try to forget something or someone the longer it stay on your mind so i guess the best thing to do is just let it be!

BOUNDARIES
Now I have come to notice that Batswana especially men do not know the meaning of personal space nor do they respect the concept. Now I am not trying to be white or obnoxious or anything but damn it I dont like being touched just by random people. Its just not hygienic to begin with especially with men because we all know that very few of them actually do take time to wash hands after a visit to the toilet or in their case a nearby tree/wall. The damn people just can't say hi and let u be, they will reach their filthy hands out to you and be supprised and insulted when you pull away! All I am saying is mother fucker if I don't know you personally please get you greasy self away from me; the fact that you are a stranger just aggravates the irk of the situation! Also there is the trend of calling people Babe and using dog calling whistles and sounds  to try surmon girls! This is just irritating. First and foremost I ain't a dog and second I am not your babe and wouldn't be even if your life depended on it. Saying hi/ dumela won't take anything away from the greeting infact it would just show you respect me as a person.

So please brothers it ain't rocket science lets get our etiquette in order please!

Now i have had just about enough of this satanism propaganda. Whoever started this sensationalistic myth must be proud of themselves. I do wonder how though if this keeps up poeple will be able to live freely and happily because more and more things are making it into the red satanistic zone. From music, having the Rihannas being the worst offenders to hairstyles and make up. If i recall well, make up is quite an ancient form of  art and now that people are revolutionising it and it has become more dynamic its a satanistic act to put on some mascara; and quite f rankly goth has been here for much longer than satanism or at least it was more popular than satanism but now satanism is taking over!very soon every god damn thing will be satanistic. What is the world coming to? What worries me is that people are preaching this phenomenon to their children and i doubt if anyone even really has a real understanding of the concept. What i dont doubt though is that a lot of people will use it where it favours them most like most things today even the bibble.

I just realised something after my last relationship that, I loved the guy fine but the mistake I made after the breakup was hoping that what he did or rather how he reacted towards me would be the determining factor over how i got over him and when i could move on. Last night like Oprah says I had an AHA moment/ an epiphany! I realised I was the one holding myself back because I kept hoping that maybe I maybe........ I know all this sounds bizarre for my age but he taught me to love and I did a good job of learning. So the epiphany is that: I am the only person in charge of my feelings, it doesn't matter what the guy does or doesn't do. Its all up to me. I was too busy keeping my fate in his hands to realise this before but now that I have it has lifted a huge weight over my shoulder and I feel more empowered because I was bordering on being depressed by depending on someone else for my happiness.

So my advice is cry it all out then deal with the loss and move on to better things. Like TD Jakes says "LET IT GO"!

MARINA HOSPITAL
The state of affairs at this government hospital is worrying to say the least. Went there on friday to check on a friend who was at the emergency waiting for admittance. Just walking into the emergency area i was hit by such a pugnat stench that made me feel sick. Now can you imagine that, a place we are supposed to go to to get better but instead those of us who went feeling good leave feeling sick to the gut! I just wonder how the people who wait hours for admittance deal with the smell. Even the person who was supposed to be in the reception area had jumped ship, no wonder though because really it just smelled awful in that place. I think something should be done with regards to the sanitary state of the hospital maybe they might just have people leaving it sooner rather than later because i am pretty sure such unhealthy air is bound to add to ones dismal state of health.

Yours trully repelled by the smell and worried about public health.......