UNIVERSITY STANDARDS
Let me just start by saying if you want to be taken serious you have to be seen to be serious. Now on this note I really think my University the University of Botswana being the only University of the country should really stop letting their students determine which "beat they dance to" in a manner of speaking. Students now are complaining that they are being given material fit only for an Oxford, Harvard graduate etc and they feel its not fair! Really now!? Sue me for making you competitive in the real market for jobs! And really if the University is going to say how high each time the students complain then I am afraid we will be leaving here with worthless degrees. I think the University needs to set its own standards of the quality and the complexity of the exams, tests they administer and if anyone cannot step up they should just ship out! Be aware that I am  saying this as a student. We need to up our game if we want to compete with the outer world, next thing we complain we cant find jobs and we claim not to know why! Mr Magang did say not so long ago that we are not producing quality workers in our higher level education and I think this is precisely why! Caving in each time students say a test was not fair yet all the material they were tested on they were taught! I think there is a huge difference between a test not being fair and failing because of that or failing because you did not put in the effort or that despite the effort you just did not understand in which case then you need to rethink your course choices.

LETTING GO

I think in any relationship that you have created, the wise thing to do and be is realize when its time to move on! If you are no longer happy with the way things are going and you no longer appreciate what the other party does for you in the relationship then its definitely time to kiss and say goodbye! I have to leave such a toxic relationship i have been having with alcoholic CIDERS. They leave me feeling extremely hungry but with nothing being agreeable to my stomach and I don't enjoy any of the sleep i get after having them for up to 2 days. So i am cutting my loses and letting it go because in the end its my money that gets wasted on something i don't even enjoy any more and which later makes me very sick.
It was a good few years we have had but its time to part ways and find new companions.

TRAPPED
Children are supposed to be a blessing and bring joy and headache to the parents and all. That evey parent expects. However they are not supposed to be the reason one stays in a miserable relationship! A lot of people dont actually get that staying in a relationship that is not working is not only bad for them but also detrimental to the developing psyche of that child they think they are protecting! Imagine what a child learns from seeing one of their parent being abused by the other! If you love each other its all wonderful and blissful and thats good but when the love is gone just let it go! And the tendency of threatening to keep the child from one by the other partner is really getting old! Those of you who are threatened need to grow some balls and tell your parenting partner that no sane court would keep a willing parent away from their child! I really hate to see people suffering because of the burden they place on themselves with regards to their children when they really dont have to be suffering.

I know i am not exactly qualified to have these thoughts but you being horrible in life will definitely rub on your child, if thats yur im i feel sorry for the child if not its time for action!

WHAT IT SAYS ABOUT YOU?
I heard that my friends have a tendency of saying bad things about one another friend we have. Mostly its just them saying how she is a bitch and how she is like a food outlet that you might pass by while journeying somewhere.
This then made me question my friend's characters. How could they, being the self respecting people they claim to be and in most cases are then befriend such a person. And then also how could they not were they good friends sit her down and show her how her behaviour was tarnishing her image
instead of revealing in  her misery and making endless fun of her
In retrospect i know i have done this in my  youth but now the friends i keep, we tell each other everything even if we have to point out the bad traits that each of us have. Because thats after all the true definition of friendship.
What my other friends are doing however reflects badly on them as well because saying bad things about another person even if they are true especially in their absence says that you are an imposter for lack of a better word.
You can pretend to be a friend while attacking that friend behind their back and it just means you cant be trusted and that you are mean.
So the next time you want to point out something bad about a friend make sure they are around so that at least they can go and correct themselves, that way you have done good to the world

just realised something the harder you try to forget something or someone the longer it stay on your mind so i guess the best thing to do is just let it be!

BOUNDARIES
Now I have come to notice that Batswana especially men do not know the meaning of personal space nor do they respect the concept. Now I am not trying to be white or obnoxious or anything but damn it I dont like being touched just by random people. Its just not hygienic to begin with especially with men because we all know that very few of them actually do take time to wash hands after a visit to the toilet or in their case a nearby tree/wall. The damn people just can't say hi and let u be, they will reach their filthy hands out to you and be supprised and insulted when you pull away! All I am saying is mother fucker if I don't know you personally please get you greasy self away from me; the fact that you are a stranger just aggravates the irk of the situation! Also there is the trend of calling people Babe and using dog calling whistles and sounds  to try surmon girls! This is just irritating. First and foremost I ain't a dog and second I am not your babe and wouldn't be even if your life depended on it. Saying hi/ dumela won't take anything away from the greeting infact it would just show you respect me as a person.

So please brothers it ain't rocket science lets get our etiquette in order please!

Now i have had just about enough of this satanism propaganda. Whoever started this sensationalistic myth must be proud of themselves. I do wonder how though if this keeps up poeple will be able to live freely and happily because more and more things are making it into the red satanistic zone. From music, having the Rihannas being the worst offenders to hairstyles and make up. If i recall well, make up is quite an ancient form of  art and now that people are revolutionising it and it has become more dynamic its a satanistic act to put on some mascara; and quite f rankly goth has been here for much longer than satanism or at least it was more popular than satanism but now satanism is taking over!very soon every god damn thing will be satanistic. What is the world coming to? What worries me is that people are preaching this phenomenon to their children and i doubt if anyone even really has a real understanding of the concept. What i dont doubt though is that a lot of people will use it where it favours them most like most things today even the bibble.