CONFORMITY

I always say its not about what other people are doing but what I think is right for me. To my credit  I have held down this sentiment on most of the aspects of my life and I just realised recently that I have been beating down on myself over one thing. Relationships, I mean with the opposite sex or same sex depending on your tastes. For the record I am straight. Point is though that I really have been cruel to myself because I dont have a boyfriend and almost everyone my age is dating. I called myself a dormant fool who is going to get old and not have lived life to the fullest. But then I had an epiphany; I love fun and I have it each time I can but casual dating is just not my style and I should just learn to live with it because it is what makes me me! I must say I felt awfully bad because I had been judging myself based on other peoples lives and not my authentic self. So I guess the moral here is be you even if the mainstream disagrees/ does something totally different from you; Thats what makes each of us unique.

PS. Taking pride in being a scarce dater

HONESTY

Honesty such a simple but yet unattainable thing!People lie about everything even the most unnecessary things such as the people they know, how much money they have(though i understand to some extent why some lie about this),where they stay etc. I think if people realised that this information does not really add anything to the lifes of the people they tell the lies to it would save them the trouble of having to lie which I for one must say i dont really care. I mean i respect peoplelike Gareth Cliff and Oprah who relatively show a measure of honesty in what they say and i must I respect a person who really can stick to their guns and not care what other people think of them.That shows courage and individuality which is a really attractive thing.So i say to you stop lying and dont deny yourself to live your authentic self because you only have one life to live best make the most of yourself.

BIG SISTERS

Before i say anything serious let me just say i admire the vocab used by our lovely big/fat sisters to describe  their size. Words like "voluptous", "a little meat on the bones" and "full figured" to mention a few.
Well most of those women who are big dont fall within the definition af any of the aforementioned words. Now understand that i am not being mean and i have no personal feeling agaisnt fat people but the reality is that being fat is very unhealthy;whether you taking medication or not. According to the Collins dictionary and thesarus voluptous means- sexually alluring because of full, shapely figure. Ok il allow the full part but most of you arent shapely and they look like a glass mayonnaise bottle put upside down which more politically correct people call a triangle shape.
So in the spirit of being honest with ourselves i suggest ladies you admit that you are unhealthy in yourr current state even if you are comfortable with the size. So either you make an effort to down size or you just call yourselves what you are fat!
Your sisteer in the fight to getting healthy
S.A.M 

LADIES AND THEIR PANTS

Ladies, ladies, ladies! The trends some of us are rocking these days are gross to say the least. The belted panties, yes I mean panties, the huge granny underwear on very youthful sisters who wear low cut jeans for that matter and the belted but ill fitting pants which really doesn’t matter because then the ass will still be very much making itself notice. Now these are just a few of the ailments that I found really irritating but they are not by any means the only social injustices we commit on the society. Now for how to address these problems:

1.       Please there are a lot of in fashion very nice bikinis and boy shots or even g-strings for those who find them favourable that can stay well within the limits of the pants or at least just wear a big t-shirt to cover up these indecencies please. Now these points address the first problems mentioned so please next time you visit the shops be sure to try out new underwear.

2.       As for the belted un-fitting pants, either give those away or just lose a few kilos so that the pants could fit well. The butt crack really is sickening, add to that the stretch marks which are an injustice to every woman and that makes a recipe for throwing up one’s guts. We have to at least admit to ourselves when we have added some fat to our skin than to impose ourselves on the society in such and un-just way that should just be made illegal.

I am hoping my dear sisters that you will use all this very important pointers and change your lives for the better and also really be much more environmentally friendly. Your sister in the fight for public decency.

S.A.M.

working with what you have!

Everybody is different!We all know that but for some reason humans just tend to have the desire to be like somebody else and have angelina's mouth or jlo's hips.But what we really need to do is appreciate what our bodies look like in their natural state and just work on keeping it healthy and fit!By healthy here i dont mean not taking any prescribed medication as most "big" people like to allude is healthy. Being healthy i mean not being anywhere near being considered overweight where you can do any mild exercises like walking without actually feeling like you just had to run 10 laps. Being able to love your body and really protecting it and appreciating it is the key to  not gaining exercive weight because just like mothers ba tshwara thipa ka ha bogaleng" for their kids i am pretty sure if wewe treated our bodies the same way as if they were our kids we would not have any obesities.Lets all just strive to only nourish our bodies nothing more nothing less.

WAGE BILL CUTTING MEASURES BY GOVERNMENT-proposed solution/measure-last in first out)

Now i don't know who among our respected leaders proposed this but seriously this shows that it should be "first in first out". I mean how exactly do we expect to progress if we don't have young fresh and innovative people in the work places. The older workers with all due respect are past their sell by date as in some are in knee deep with all the technological advances that they aren't really resourceful in the work place. Anyhow some of them are nearing their retirement age and i don't really understand how in a country where we have the youth being the major constitutes of the unemployed pool anyone could suggest such  a preposterous motion and have anyone backing them up!its just downright ridiculous!a go jewe go sutelanwe please, this just goes to show how greedy some of our leaders are and how their thinking capacity is limited for lack of a better word to use.