CONFORMITY

I always say its not about what other people are doing but what I think is right for me. To my credit  I have held down this sentiment on most of the aspects of my life and I just realised recently that I have been beating down on myself over one thing. Relationships, I mean with the opposite sex or same sex depending on your tastes. For the record I am straight. Point is though that I really have been cruel to myself because I dont have a boyfriend and almost everyone my age is dating. I called myself a dormant fool who is going to get old and not have lived life to the fullest. But then I had an epiphany; I love fun and I have it each time I can but casual dating is just not my style and I should just learn to live with it because it is what makes me me! I must say I felt awfully bad because I had been judging myself based on other peoples lives and not my authentic self. So I guess the moral here is be you even if the mainstream disagrees/ does something totally different from you; Thats what makes each of us unique.

PS. Taking pride in being a scarce dater