WHAT IT SAYS ABOUT YOU?
I heard that my friends have a tendency of saying bad things about one another friend we have. Mostly its just them saying how she is a bitch and how she is like a food outlet that you might pass by while journeying somewhere.
This then made me question my friend's characters. How could they, being the self respecting people they claim to be and in most cases are then befriend such a person. And then also how could they not were they good friends sit her down and show her how her behaviour was tarnishing her image
instead of revealing in  her misery and making endless fun of her
In retrospect i know i have done this in my  youth but now the friends i keep, we tell each other everything even if we have to point out the bad traits that each of us have. Because thats after all the true definition of friendship.
What my other friends are doing however reflects badly on them as well because saying bad things about another person even if they are true especially in their absence says that you are an imposter for lack of a better word.
You can pretend to be a friend while attacking that friend behind their back and it just means you cant be trusted and that you are mean.
So the next time you want to point out something bad about a friend make sure they are around so that at least they can go and correct themselves, that way you have done good to the world