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I am fully convinced that there are just some people who for a while prefer not to date! I know if you are a guy the main assumption becomes that you are gay, which is not a bad thing(though that depends largely on how liberal you are) and if you are a girl it is assumed you are an emotional wreck. I think i am not one but for the life of me i dont have the inclination to be anybody's special anything. Its just about being at ease and in love with myself and not ye twilling to share that love but whatever the case may be i know i am happier now than i have ever been since starting to get into the dating thing. Unfortuantely this revelation came at the time of an attempted realtionship with a guy i like a lot but evidently not enough. I am glad i realised that i am not yet ready to share my love before it got any deeper and that i was able to be honest about it to myself(most inportantly) and to the guy i was with

#its not a bad thing to be alone, if you can be at ease and happy alone you should be able to hadle being with other people because then you will be assured of your identity.